In Her Own Words
About her
53, divorced, no children — and definitely ready to meet my equal.
I’m intelligent, independent and lucky enough to have an amazing career (I work in Defence/global affairs) but I’m just as happy getting outside, planning a fabulous holiday (5* hotels, sun, books and good service, I’m sorry but I can’t stand camping and have never been in a camper van. I promise you I’m not a snob, I just love a clean bed and 2 showers a day) and spending time with family and friends.
I’m positive, resilient, caring and always up for a good laugh. I’ve worked out who I am, what matters to me and what doesn’t — which means I’m looking for someone who is comfortable in their own skin too.
I’m not looking for someone to complete my life; I’ve already got a pretty great one. I’ve lived, seen the world already, mostly the third world parts with work, which has shaped me. I’m looking for someone who can make it even better. Someone kind, honest, intelligent and fun — my equal, my partner and hopefully, the person I can’t wait to tell about my day.
Bonus points if you make me laugh, love adventure and can handle a woman who knows her own mind.
So, if you’re emotionally grown-up, curious about life and still believe that chemistry can’t be swiped into existence… say hello. 😉
About her ideal match
Bright, positive, intelligent.
Sense of humour, relaxed and perhaps likes the outdoors more than being in.
Don’t mind if you have children of any age.
Must love animals (I don’t have any but that’s the retirement plan!) and be kind.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Swindon, Wiltshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SN25 (Swindon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 8" (204cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Rugby; Skiing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Magic Radio Dating: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |








