In His Own Words
About him
So… the elephant in the room?
The wheelchair?
Well I do walk but I also use the wheelchair (I share the responsibility, fairly, so neither my wheels or legs can claim preferential treatment).
And now that’s out the way… who am I?
64 now, 65 next year. Have worked as an award-winning writer/journalist my whole life: not news, just travel, fashion, business, Cognac (solely, for 18 months), theatre, movies, literature (the whole A to Z of the Arts as well as staging an annual film festival in Oxford for 14 years).
Worked as the official blogger for the Oxford International Literary Festival for 13 years and, from the sublime to the - on paper at least - ridiculous, for two years was appointed Oxford’s official ‘Toilet Tsar’ (weird, yes, but true…).
Since my accident 11 years ago, I have also specialised in disability issues (including working two years for the German Tourist Board as their ‘Disability’ spokesperson).
As to the ‘elephant in the room’? Again…
How does it restrict me?
Simple. It doesn’t. I ALWAYS find a way💯👌LEGAL NOTE: this doesn’t cover seaside rock pools!
As for who I am…? Well , I like parties so long as they’re not mine (that way I can leave when I want to).
I don’t like ‘loud’ people but love people who are spirited and (I hope this isn’t out of fashion) nice!!!!!
Local would be great.
That’s it.
NB: And as to the very first question someone once greeted me with (forever forged in my brain) “Are you on a final salary pension scheme?
No.😊
PS. Have just added a pic of me today 30/12/25. You can’t miss it. It’s the decidedly stern and wooden portrait (although the background has a lot to recommend it…)
About his ideal match
Good, easy fun.
Normal (however you interpret that); spirited, impish and kind.
I’m sorry if that’s not enough but that really is it!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX5 (Kidlington) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
57 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
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